When she’s spiralling and you’re whispering “WTF am I doing wrong?” at 3am…
You love her fiercely, but some days you’re so close to the edge you can taste the scream in your throat.
That’s why I created What’s The Feeling - WTF - a brave coaching programme + community membership, with live coaching, practical tools, and a community of mums raising girls who’ve been told they’re “too much” in a wold that doesn’t understand them.
Inside WTF, you’ll:
Rebuild trust (before the gap becomes a wall)
Calm the chaos without losing your sh*t
Feel close to your daughter again
Do it alongside other mums who get it
The Silent Fear You Carry
You lie awake wondering if you’re losing her. You’ve tried everything - staying calm, snapping, bribing, even Googling symptoms at 2am - and nothing works.
Here’s what it really looks like when nothing changes:
Every meltdown, shutdown or slammed door adds another layer of distance.
Relationships deteriorate.
Trust fractures.
She starts making choices in places you can’t protect her.
The cost of waiting isn’t just another bad day - it’s years of connection you can’t rewind.
Motherhood feels like a tightrope you were never asked to walk…
You’re not a bad mum.
You’re not broken.
And neither is she.
She’s not “too much”.
Her meltdowns, shutdowns, and mood swings aren’t defiance - they’re her nervous system crying out.
This is overwhelm, not bad behaviour.
Communication, not chaos.
But no one ever taught you how to listen.
You were told to fix it.
To control it.
To shut it down.
Well, f*ck that. It’s time for something different.
Too often our girls are misunderstood.
Schools, health, even family slap on labels: autism, anxiety, ADHD. OCD, depression.
Sometimes those words bring clarity.
More often…they don’t - a label without guidance, it feels like a life sentence without a map.
They tell her she’s broken.
They tell you you’re failing.
But, what if she isn’t broken at all?
What if the real problem isn’t her, but a world that demands she shrink?
She doesn’t need fixing.
She needs to feel safe.
And so do you.
We’re done medicating the magic out of our girls.
We’re done diagnosing away their needs.
This isn’t a parenting strategy.
This is a revolution.
Imagine this Instead..
Six months from now, meltdowns don’t push your apart - they bring you closer?
You feel calm, she feels safe, and together you’re rebuilding trust that lasts. And you’re not doing it alone - that’s what mums experience inside WTF: What’s The Feeling.
Now picture this:
You walk into a meltdown with grounded energy and stay calm even when she’s not.
She softens because she finally feels seen and safe in your presence.
You no longer second guess at what’s going on; you understand the messages under her big reactions, and you know exactly what to do next.
Instead of spiralling apart, you spiral closer.
And you’re not doing it alone.
You’re surrounded by mums who get it.
Change Starts With You
I used to lie awake thinking:
What if nothing changes? What if it gets worse? What if she hates me for trying to do things differently?
But here’s the truth: those weren’t facts.
They were fears - limiting beliefs from a culture that tells mums to cope, to shrink, to follow the “norm.”
Then one day it hit me:
The only thing holding me back… was me.
I wasn’t broken.
She wasn’t broken.
We just needed a new way.
And that’s why I created WTF: What’s The Feeling: to give you the tools, the support, and the community I wish I’d had when I was standing where you are now.
Introducing WTF: What’s The Feeling?
It’s a 5 module, honest, science backed coaching membership programme + brave community that helps mums like you:
Make sense of your daughter’s big feelings
Break free from the chaos cycle
Parent with calm confidence instead of guilt
Rebuild trust before the distance becomes a wall
This isn’t another parenting strategy.
This isn’t about fixing her.
This is about connection. Belonging. A revolution in how we raise our girls.
The Roadmap Inside What’s The Feeling
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The Fog
You’re drowning. You think it’s your fault. It’s not. You haven’t been shown how to swim.
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The Shift
She’s not defiant, she’s dysregulated. And your chest loosens.
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The Anchor
You stop spiralling with her. Learn calm holding strategies that help her feel safe.
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The Rhythm
Trust returns. Daily rhythms make communication easier and conflict lighter.
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The Integration
Calm becomes your new normal. Both of you grow - together and separately.
What You’ll Get Inside WTF
When you join, you’re not just learning tools - you’re joining a movement of mums who refuse to dim their daughter’s light.
✅ Monthly Group Coaching Calls - Bring your chaos. Leave with clarity, actionable tools and emotional relief.
✅ Speaker Sessions - Honest guidance on topics that matter: self-harm, disordered eating, nervous system health, neurodivergence, identity and social media.
✅ Monthly Q&A - Ask the questions you’re scared to voice and get real, non-judgemental answers you can trust.
✅ Private Community Space - A safe, supportive space for sharing wins, struggles, and advice - no judgement, no perfection, just solidarity.
✅ In-Person Meetups Every 3 Months - Connect face to face, share stories, hug it out, and feel the relief of being truly understood.
Bonus: 🎁 WTF Is Going On? - Quick start tools for working through the toughest days with confidence and calm.
All for only £30/month
I’ve Been Where You Are
I’ve stood at the top of the stairs, heart pounding, afraid to open her door.
I’ve been hit, bitten, screamed at, barricaded out of my own home.
I’ve broken down in my car until my head throbbed.
And then I realised:
She wasn’t trying to hurt me.
She was hurting.
And I was her safest place to fall apart.
The moment I stopped trying to fix her and started listening…. everything shifted.
Not perfect. Not tidy.
But real. And connected.
That shift became the foundation for What’s The Feeling (WTF) - because no mum should have to figure this out alone at 3am.
I’m now a certified coach and use play and physiology first methods to support mums through the same journey - helping them find calm, rebuild trust and reconnect with their daughters.
I know how dark and lonely it can feel. And I also know the way through.
Thast’s why I created this space so you don’t have to do it alone.
Choose your plan
Group Programme
Yours for just £30/mth
Online Membership +
Virtual Support
Monthly Coaching Calls (worth £97)
Speaker Sessions (worth £147)
Monthly Q&A (worth £97)
Private Community Space (worth £47)
Online What’s The Feeling Method (worth £447)
Bonus WTF Guide (worth £17)
In-Person Meet Ups (Extra Costs May Apply)
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Popular
1:1 + Group Programme
Everything in the group programme, plus:
6 Months 1:1 Coaching with me
Personalised guidance tailored to your daughter (priceless)
Priority access to me for your burning questions (priceless)
Bespoke strategies to your individual situation (priceless)
12 Months Access to WTF Group Membership
Monthly Coaching Calls
Speaker Sessions
Monthly Q&A
Private Community Space
Online What’s The Feeling Method
Bonus WTF Guide
In-Person Meet Ups (Extra Costs May Apply)
Payment Options:
Pay in full: £1770
2 x £885
0r 12 x £147.50
This is the closest you’ll get to me holding your hand while you reset your relationship with your daughter (and yourself).
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Two Futures. One Choice.
Path A:
You’re still walking on eggshells.
She’s shutting you out.
The gap is widening.
Path B:
You’re laughing at the dinner table.
She trusts you.
You feel calm, clear and connected.
Only one choice starts today.
Why Now?
Spirals don’t shrink with time - they grow.
Girls are burning out younger than ever.
The longer you wait, the more distance, and regret creep in.
This is For The Mums Who:
Whisper “WTF am I even doing?” at 3am.
Feel cracked open by the chaos.
Know deep down that if nothing changes - everything breaks.